When you are the anvil, bear;
when you are the hammer, strike.”
Edwin Markham
“The nail that sticks up gets hammered down.”
Japanese proverb
“While the hammer drives the nail,
it is the nail that finds its way into the wood.”
As we work together to solve dilemmas in our families, our places of work and even our world, things go best when we each have a role to play. What an interesting metaphor develops if we think of ourselves as items in a woodshed. Hammer, anvil, nail –each type of tool and person serves a purpose. Though our social roles change in different circumstances with a little more flexibility than an iron tool, because of our natural abilities, we frequently tend to choose (or be given) one kind of responsibility or another! (more…)